From an instant messaging conversation Lulu and I had the other day, trying to plan ahead for a get together the next evening. I was, uncharacteristically, suggesting that we play things by ear.
Me: I’m trying to be carefree and worry less.
Lulu: Good plan.
Me: Why should I spend all this time worrying about what MIGHT happen tomorrow?
Lulu: I have also been doing the same and its working out very well–level of overall happiness and inter peace is much more stable and higher. I just woke up one day and things were different. We can discuss ways of improving and mastering this giant task tomorrow if we run out of things to discuss.